Sunday, February 10, 2008

Something Stupid...and it sucks

Did you hear about the mattress tester who was fired? He stayed awake on the job.

..... Speaking of being stupid ..... (that's why I opened with a stupid joke) ...... I did try to contact Ryan again. On the day he was supposed to be interviewed for his Uni, I sent him the following text:

Hey bro of luck with your i/view, it's today isn't it? .... Let me know how it turns out .....

Yes, ladies and gents, I am now officially a stalker ... not literally but I guess to Ryan anyway now. And ..... and this is a very important and ..... I got no reply. Nothing. Zilch. Nada. Zer-ooooo. Not even a "hiya, thanks mate" .... or a "it went great ... i love you too ..." . Well I know I am pushing it with the last one, but it would've been nice to be acknowledged.

It's times like these when I fell the need for a gay friend or a straight friend who isn't homophobic.
So I can discuss this with them and they can stop me from shooting myself in the foot and be angry with me and shout at me with a i-told-you speech when I go ahead and do it anyway.

Sometimes I feel like I am in a deserted island. No gay friends. No gay acquaintances. No gay contacts. My only contact with the gay world seems to be this blog which itself only has about 1 reader(s) (besides me.....I am appalled that you would think that...though I don't blame you). This says a lot about my social life right now. All my friends are either busy/married/pissed at me/overseas.

And the worst thing is that I don't even know if anyone's gay or not and how would I approach them. It just sucks.

I do yearn for a gay/non-homophobic friend who I could talk to just about stuff and discuss the whole Ryan thing with them and they would stop me from making such stupid stupid mistakes.

In the end, I followed my own advise (no.. I do NOT suffer from MPD .....although this particular blog entry is written by Zanny B) and deleted Ryan's number from my mobile. Not that it would help much, but I have finally decided not to contact Ryan at all, again. So goes nothing. Again.


Hish said...

It seems like we are compatriots in the world of unrequited affection :P

The only person I can talk about to, in my case, is the target of my affection. Which means I can't talk about it, so yea.

Hope you succeed in cutting contact with him. :) I don't have that option, so that's a plus, for you.

rakee said...
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Rambunctious WhipperSnapper said...

hish: We should probably start a club :P:P .....

Well frankly speaking it's hard for me to continue contact if there is no response. So I have to cut contact!! If there was a response, it would be really impossible for me not to respond!! :)

The Line of Beauty said...

just discovered ur blog, and needless to say, I love it.
Reading about your social life makes me feel, how difficult to get true gay friend fact, I have often asked this to many men I met whether two gay men can be just friends, but most of the answers were in negative!!